
The Top 3 Things I’ve Learned in Polyamory
My inner monologue has quite literally taken a 180-degree turn from “There’s no one good to date” to “There are plenty of amazing people to date, form deep relationships with, and have sex with”.

Be a Greedy Lover. I Dare You.
Confession time. I’m a greedy lover. I love to receive pleasure. I love to enjoy as many orgasms as humanly possible. I love to be on the receiving end of my partner’s overwhelming desire for me. And I relish the hell out of all of it.

Trauma Can Be Sexy
Cue anxiety, fear, anticipation, and so much bravery as I walked to the front of the class. After a brief interview where she asked me about my core desires and boundaries, she crafted a “scene” where I was a naughty school girl being punished by a nun.

Why Did I Become a Sex and Relationship Coach?
This is the number one question I get asked when I tell people that I’m a coach. And my number one answer? Shame.